Your house must be a never ending riot of noise and fun. That is why you have to be young to have children, especially THREE boys close in age. What happens when one of them gets hurt in an originally playful game, cries, and blames his brother? That is the usual scenario with children.
Lydia it all depends. If they both know they are being rough they both live with it. If we judge one is being more rough than the other then typically Harry takes the wrap which is a shame because Charlie plays on it. A learning curve for Harry which he is beginning to understand. We had a situation at the weekend where big cuddly toys were being used as weapons. I put up a web cam to capture what was going on. I asked Harry not to hit Charlie. Harry kept on hitting Charlie (I say hitting, it was more of a touch with something soft) but Charlie decided he was hurt. I could see he was not hurt. Harry knew he did not hurt him. Harry got punished. Why? Well as I explained to Harry in his room Charlie can only get away with complaining if you hit him and their was evidence (video footage) of him doing it. Had you not been hitting him there could be no problems to complain about.
Your house must be a never ending riot of noise and fun. That is why you have to be young to have children, especially THREE boys close in age.
ReplyDeleteWhat happens when one of them gets hurt in an originally playful game, cries, and blames his brother? That is the usual scenario with children.
So cute *-* Ounwt, I'm a fan of these boys,
ReplyDeleteI like all of your boys, but I guess I'm in love with Harry :))
ReplyDeleteLydia it all depends. If they both know they are being rough they both live with it. If we judge one is being more rough than the other then typically Harry takes the wrap which is a shame because Charlie plays on it. A learning curve for Harry which he is beginning to understand. We had a situation at the weekend where big cuddly toys were being used as weapons. I put up a web cam to capture what was going on. I asked Harry not to hit Charlie. Harry kept on hitting Charlie (I say hitting, it was more of a touch with something soft) but Charlie decided he was hurt. I could see he was not hurt. Harry knew he did not hurt him. Harry got punished. Why? Well as I explained to Harry in his room Charlie can only get away with complaining if you hit him and their was evidence (video footage) of him doing it. Had you not been hitting him there could be no problems to complain about.
ReplyDeleteHarry must have taught Charlie a bit of strategic move,and ended screwing himself up after reminding Charlie LOL
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